So what have I done so far? The minute I arrived, I was immersed in this culture. More so, I was like the oil resting on the top of an unshaken bottle of dressing, obviously different in the mix but still supposed to be there. My family of wonderfully friendly and (more importantly) patient people took me to "la comida" with 25 of their friends. So intimidating but a great way for me to not be able to consider my nerves. I ordered whatever Luis told me to. I couldn't understand the majority of conversations. It was wonderful.
Speaking of wonderful, there's the group. I'll lay out the basic characters that are in this drama I call "Real Madrid", of course after the prominent soccer team here in the city. We have me, the socially reserved but often way too outgoing girl who probably is only good for a quick annoyance with her camera and frustrated persistence to speak Spanish. Danielle, who I have found to be probably my closest friend on the trip, is the more quiet one with the crazy host mom who owns two restaurants here in Villa (aka- free food and great places to chill for us). Sarah and Emily are the hilarious dynamic duo on this trip and I am definitely guilty of picking up their coined phrases of "absolutely not" and "cut me". My neighbor chica, Shelly, is quite the social butterfly and is constantly finding ways to surprise me with her cute rings and invitations to Lemon (a club where her host brother works). Ellen is the chill one of the group, always looking to have a good time but always going with the flow. Her witty comments crack me up. There's Daniel, the boy who lives in El Bosque (meaning "the forest", it's a part of town that we tease him profusely for living in). Phil is the only non-Eloner and is said to roam around in a red and white striped shirt with a cane to pose for the latest edition of "Where's Waldo?" (okay, not really but he could). He is quite the ladies man here. So here we all are in this little and tranquil town called Villaviciosa de Odon outside of a city known for its art, tapas, wine and all night parties. This should make for an interesting plot, right?
A quick overview of what I've done, but this doesn't do it justice. Met everyone in the group, ate rascon and chocolate in the cafe, finally got phones, visited Museo del Prado and Reina Sofia, had tapas in the city, bar-hopped in Villa, went out until 6:30 AM at a discoteca, ate ham carved from an actual pig leg (still in the kitchen as we speak), went to a traditional San Sebastian festival in town, did a live shot for Phoenix14 from my bedroom, planned future trips (to possibly Morocco, Paris, Rome, Valencia, Barcelona, London and more), met the international students at UEM (our university), been to a bunch of pointless Spanish and orientation sessions, felt great, felt horrible, been happy, been sad, experienced excitement, lost motivation, assumed, broke my norms, regained old habits, desired to start new ones, read, called my mom for her birthday and slept. And I am far from content...
Love the blog Dannika - you are a captivating writer!
ReplyDeleteJust wanted you to know that when I (and when most others)say that being abroad was amazing, it doesn't necessarily mean every moment of it was. In fact, more often than not I felt lost, confused, frustrated, and a wealth of other not so great emotions. I might have talked up the whole thing to sound like the most fun time of my life, but I should take this chance to set the record straight. The amazing part is how all those hard feelings help you discover yourself and make you a stronger person. You are doing a brave thing living over there Dannika, don't forget it. Not many people can take that leap of faith, the fact that you're actually there is an accomplishment in itself. I'm so proud of you! Go put yourself on a limb, experience the world and youself! I love you!
-Kristin, xoxo
PS- Vicky and Mena from Step say hi :)
Girl you are such a great writer! I always knew it, but damn!
ReplyDeleteWhen I went to make this comment I didn't realize Kristin will have put it way better than I could. She's right, the change doesn't happen overnight. I had days of intense curiosity and excitement, and days where my roommates and I stayed in watching Scrubs and talking about what we were most homesick for. I guess just remember it's a semester just like any other, you'll have up days and down days. Each will simply be ten times more intense. When you're up you're really happy and amazed at where you are, and when you're down you long for home more than ever.
It really does take time. I know all of this is unsolicited advice, but I thought maybe some part of what I say might be helpful. I miss and love you so much!